Hello! It’s great to see that you are reflecting on important questions about relationships and personal growth. It’s true that each person is unique and has their own journey to follow. While it’s natural to admire qualities in our parents or others, it’s important to recognize that we cannot simply emulate their lives or experiences.
Finding a partner who is compatible with us is about more than just finding someone who has qualities similar to our parents or other role models. It’s about finding someone who shares our values, interests, and goals, and who can support us as we grow and change over time.
It’s also important to remember that relationships require effort and commitment. If we want to have a successful relationship, we need to be willing to put in the work to make it thrive. This means being honest with ourselves and our partners about our needs, communicating openly and respectfully, and being willing to compromise and make sacrifices when necessary.
So, to answer your question, if you are truly committed to achieving your desired outcome, you need to be willing to put in the effort and make the necessary changes in yourself and in your approach to relationships. Remember, the most important thing is to be true to yourself and to find someone who loves and accepts you for who you are.
I wish you all the best.