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Entry 25

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ABBY:
For clarity and context, let me describe the kind of luxury I found myself in.

First, let me be honest—God really does work in mysterious ways.

If I hadn’t blackmailed Mr 16, which led to him doing what he did… Uncle wouldn’t have kicked me out. If I hadn’t been kicked out, Madam J wouldn’t have picked me up and sent me on that mad errand. And if none of that had happened, I would never have landed in this life of absolute luxury.

When I say luxury, I mean my bedroom alone was bigger than my aunt’s entire downstairs space. That includes her living room and kitchen.

I had my own en suite bathroom, and a walk-in wardrobe—which, by the way, filled up fast with clothes, shoes and handbags.

A private driver took me to school each day and waited outside until I finished, then brought me home again. I was waited on hand and foot.

At first, it was thrilling. But then… something didn’t sit right.

One day, I asked the housekeeper and the chef where the family’s children were. They both said, “They’re abroad.”

No photos. No keepsakes. Just pictures of Chief and his wife around the house.

A few weeks after I finished my final Form 5 exams (now called JSS3), my new ‘mum’ came bursting into my room, grinning.

“Abby, my darling! I’ve got great news! You’ve been offered admission to the University of Ibadan to study Law!”

Let’s pause here.

Ibadan?!

Really?

In my head, I was already halfway to Oxford, Cambridge, Yale… those were the schools our posh secondary school talked about as destinations for us—if our parents were willing to send us abroad.

I’d even been included in the special tutoring classes for international entrance exams.

Yes, Chief had insisted I also take JAMB, just in case. But I thought that was just to tick a box—because, obviously, I’d be going abroad like the rest of their children.

This… this was a major disappointment. And I didn’t hide it.

Hmmm…

Entry 24

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ABBY:
Now, let’s pause here.

The moment Chief’s wife looked at me in surprise when I said I had never been intimate with a man—that was the day I truly understood my innocence… and my gullibility.

Her entire demeanour changed. Her voice softened as she leaned closer and asked again if I was telling the truth.

I nodded, and with trembling hands, I explained how I’d come to live with Madam J—carefully omitting the fact that I had blackmailed my way into Lagos and stayed by playing games.

She listened. Then sighed.

“Abby, my dear girl,” she said. “You’ve been led astray. A young girl like you deserves a better life. Give me a moment.”

She left the room.

Thirty minutes later, she returned with a gentle smile and said, “From today, you’ll live with us. Like our daughter.”

My eyes widened.

“My driver will take you to your village to inform your parents. Then you’ll return immediately. You’ll resume school and live the life you deserve.”

Now, I know what you’re thinking—thank God for me, hallelujah, finally!

Well… let’s see what happened.

When I arrived back in the village, the driver brought a truckload of food and an envelope filled with cash from Chief for my family.

My father was ecstatic.

He hugged me tightly and said, “You are a child of good luck! Look at these blessings you’ve brought us!”

But my mum wasn’t smiling.

She folded her arms and asked, “Why does this family want to take care of you? How did you meet them? I’m not comfortable with any of this.”

Before I could even answer, my dad snapped, “Of course you’re not comfortable. I break my back every day just to feed this family, and now, finally—finally—someone sends us food, clothes, money, and even a letter saying we’ll receive a monthly allowance… and you’re here asking questions?”

He turned to me and said, “Abby, well done. Go and flourish. You’re on the right path.”

And my mum, quietly, with sadness in her eyes, simply replied,

“Is she, though?”

Hmmm…


CHRIS:
Thomas and I didn’t sleep a wink.

Those four hours went by like four minutes. Around 4 a.m., the two guides returned and said, “Wake up, everyone. Freshen up—we move again.”

For those of us already awake, we quickly brushed our teeth and washed our faces. Those still trying to wake up eventually joined the queue.

Funny how I look back at that moment now—how surreal it all felt.

I can’t even explain the mix of emotions Thomas and I were feeling. Anxiety. Fear. Gratitude. Hope. And again—fear.

As I brushed my teeth, I could feel the eyes of the guides on me, silently urging me to be quick.

Two minutes. That’s all I took. Then I stepped aside for Thomas.

I rolled up my mattress, packed my bag, and for a brief second let myself imagine the future:

The life I’d have abroad. The luxury. The look on my parents’ faces when I started sending money in foreign currency.

The wife. The children. The cars.

That daydream didn’t last long.

Suddenly, the guide shouted, “Change your clothes! Put on your boots and headscarf!”

These were the items they’d told us to buy. Everyone got dressed quickly.

Then the guide yelled, “Let’s go. It’s almost daylight.”

We filed outside. It wasn’t as dark as when we arrived, and I tried to adjust my eyes.

That’s when I realised something…

The bus was gone.

Others began looking around, confused.

Then the guide stood in front of us and said:

“Guys, welcome to the second step in your journey to a better life. From now on—we walk. No more bus. This is the beginning of the desert.

“It’s a long and dangerous journey, so keep up.

“Ration your food. The next stop is a Bedouin camp—three days away.

“If you choose to stay behind, the bus won’t return for another two months.

“Good luck.”

Hmmm…

Healthy & Toxic Friendships Setting Boundaries

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Friendships are one of the most important aspects of life. A healthy friendship provides support, joy, and mutual growth, while a toxic friendship can drain your energy, damage your confidence, and leave you feeling unappreciated. Recognising the difference between the two and knowing when to set boundaries—or even walk away—is essential for your well-being. Here’s how to build healthy friendships and let go of those that no longer serve you.

What Makes a Friendship Healthy?

1. Mutual Support and Encouragement

A good friend celebrates your successes and lifts you up during tough times. There’s no competition, jealousy, or belittling—just genuine support and happiness for each other’s achievements.

2. Trust and Honesty

Healthy friendships are built on trust. You should feel comfortable sharing your thoughts without fear of judgment or betrayal. An honest friend tells you the truth, even when it’s difficult, but always with kindness and respect.

3. Balanced Give-and-Take

Friendship should never feel one-sided. Both people should contribute equally to the relationship, whether it’s making plans, offering advice, or just checking in. If you’re always the one giving while the other takes, it may be time to reevaluate.

4. Respect for Boundaries

A true friend understands and respects your personal boundaries. Whether it’s your time, space, or emotional limits, they won’t pressure you into doing things that make you uncomfortable or drain your energy.

5. Ability to Resolve Conflict

Disagreements happen, but healthy friends work through them with maturity and respect. They listen, apologise when necessary, and make an effort to fix issues rather than hold grudges or resort to passive aggression.

Signs of a Toxic Friendship

1. Constant Negativity and Criticism

Toxic friends put you down, make you feel small, or dismiss your feelings. They may be overly critical, sarcastic, or unsupportive of your goals and dreams.

2. Manipulation and Guilt-Tripping

If a friend constantly makes you feel guilty for setting boundaries or making choices that suit you, they are manipulating you. A healthy friend respects your decisions, even if they don’t always agree with them.

3. Jealousy and Competitiveness

A toxic friend might struggle with your success and try to compete with you instead of celebrating your wins. They may downplay your achievements or act bitter when you succeed.

4. Unreliability and Disrespect for Your Time

Flaking on plans, only reaching out when they need something, or ignoring your time commitments are signs of a friend who doesn’t truly value you.

5. Draining Your Energy

Do you feel exhausted or stressed after spending time with this friend? If a friendship feels more like a burden than a source of joy, it may be toxic.

Setting Boundaries in Friendships

Boundaries protect your emotional well-being. Here’s how to set them:

1. Be Clear and Direct

Communicate your limits honestly. If you don’t want late-night calls, constant venting, or last-minute

Entry 20

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ABBY:
You know those moments when you suddenly remember something from your past—and it hits you like a lightbulb switching on? You stop and think, Wow… what was I thinking?

I’ve had so many of those moments. And each time, my mind goes back to something my mum used to say:

“Abby, life is like a journey. When you choose a road, you might still have a small chance to turn back or take a different path. But once you hit the expressway, there’s no turning back.”

I didn’t understand her then. But now, with hindsight, there are roads I wish I’d never taken and so many opportunities to turn around that I foolishly ignored.

One of those moments came when Madam J returned from her trip. She called me into her bedroom.

I was 16, going on 21—convinced I knew everything.

“Abby,” she said, “do you remember promising me you’d do anything for me?”

I nodded. “Yes, Aunty, I remember.”

She smiled. Then calmly laid out what she wanted me to do.

Simple. I was already a master of the craft.

The next day, I set off for Chief Bolade’s office, wearing a provocative outfit that Madam J had selected for me.

Let’s pause here for a second.

I’ve never actually described what I looked like at that age. I was 5ft 7, size 8, with a 36-inch bust and wide hips—a proper hourglass figure, as they used to call it.

I had never tried to enhance anything until Madam J stepped in. She picked the right clothes, slapped makeup on my face, straightened my hair and tied it in a sleek ponytail. Wigs weren’t yet popular then—but I could’ve easily passed for a 20-year-old.

So I got to Chief’s office.

I told the secretary I was his niece. The man scanned me from head to toe, clearly undressing me with his eyes. I could see he was wondering why a respected man’s ‘niece’ looked like a call girl. But he didn’t say a word.

He ushered me straight into Chief’s office.

Chief looked surprised. “Hello, young lady. How may I help you?”

I glanced over at the secretary, and Chief immediately dismissed him.

Then I sat down.

And repeated—word for word—everything Madam J had told me to say.

Hmmm…


CHRIS:
My destiny was on the line. So was my life.

This mission—this move—was all in my hands.

Edward already had a head start, and I was not going to fall behind. Not that I was jealous—no. But I couldn’t pretend it didn’t bother me.

Before settling on the “alternative” route, three visa agents had already scammed me out of a fortune—with no results. This was all I had left.

So, at 6 a.m., I left the house for my 9 a.m. appointment.

You might be wondering why I left that early. Clearly, you’ve never been to Lagos. One wrong turn and you could be stuck in four hours of traffic—and when you finally get moving, there’ll be no sign of what caused the jam in the first place.

I arrived at the travel office and walked into the reception. Four people were already waiting.

The receptionist checked my details and asked me to join the group.

An hour later, a door at the far end of the corridor opened, and a man ushered us into a room with a long table and ten chairs.

Another man entered shortly after and said, “Welcome, ladies and gentlemen. Why are you here?”

It sounded like a strange question—but he insisted we answer.

He went around the room.

One person said, “I’m escaping my reality.”
Another said, “For greener pastures.”
Another added, “I want a better life.”

Then it came to me.

I replied, “Destiny.”

The man smiled. “Okay. So… a better life. Change your situation. Fulfil destiny. Now that you know why you’re here and where you want to go, I’ll tell you how to get from here to there.”

He continued, “We run an alternative relocation programme. You must be fit, healthy, determined, have the full fees, and—most importantly—be able to keep your mouth shut.”

“Are you all on the same page?” he asked.

We nodded.

He raised his voice. “I said—are you all on the same page?”

“Yes, sir!” we all shouted in unison.

Then he said, “Be here in six weeks.”

He handed each of us a list of things to bring—and the total fees. Then he left the room.

We all sat there staring at the paper, wondering…

How in God’s name are these things going to get us to our destiny?

But we were just about to find out.

Hmmm…

Entry 19

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ENTRY 19

ABBY:
Madam J. I had no idea what I had just stepped into.

That day, she drove me straight to her house. She called for her maid to serve me food and show me to a bedroom at the back of the building.

The next morning, I was invited to eat breakfast with her. She asked if I’d slept well, then said she had a proposition for me.

I was excited. I told her yes, I’d slept well and asked her to please go on.

She leaned in, her voice calm but deliberate.

“Abby, I’ve been where you are. My stepmother kicked me out of the house when I turned sixteen. My father just folded his arms and said nothing. He stayed there with the three children she brought in from her previous marriage.

I was the black sheep. My father had told her I was his niece, so she treated me like a slave.

When she eventually found out I was his daughter, the treatment only got worse. She framed me for theft, constantly started fights between me and her daughters—two of whom were older than me.

Every day my father returned from work, it was one issue or another she had cooked up about me. He never wanted to hear my side of the story.

The final straw was when she lied that her gold chain had gone missing. A ‘search’ was done and, surprise surprise, it was mysteriously found in my luggage.

That day, she insisted my father kick me out. He said no, because I was underage—not even sixteen.

A year and two months later, the day after my sixteenth birthday, I got home and found my clothes already packed.

She said, ‘We can’t harbour a thief in this house. You lie, steal, fight… we don’t want you influencing the other children. You’ve got to go.’

And my father just sat there, nodding in agreement.”

She paused for a moment, then said, “So you see, Abby, I’ve been where you are. And I want to help you—because someone helped me too.”

“So, what do you say?”

I was elated. From hopeless and homeless to hopeful and sheltered.

Then she smiled and asked, “You do know how to show appreciation, right?”

I replied, “Of course, Aunty. Name it, I’ll do anything.”

“Anything?” she asked again, curiously.

“Yes,” I replied.

Then she gave me a long, knowing look with a sly smile and said, “My darling girl… remember this day—when you promised me anything I ask.”

“Go and have some rest. I’m travelling for a few days. When I return, I’ll tell you what that ‘anything’ is.”

Hmmm…


CHRIS:
My destiny. That’s all I could think about.

I had just turned down a fully-funded Master’s scholarship—with a guaranteed job at the end. It sounded perfect. But it wasn’t my path. My destiny, according to the prophet, was across water.

Meanwhile, Edward was already building his destiny. And that made me anxious. He had an eight-month head start.

So I intensified my search. That’s when I stumbled upon a website: Fulfilled Dreams – Travel Abroad Alternatives.

Excited, I called the number immediately.

I was put through to someone called “The Coordinator.” She asked how she could help.

I said, “I want to go overseas.”

She asked why. I replied, “To fulfil my destiny.”

Then she asked, “Where?”

I hesitated. “What do you mean?”

She said, “UK or Europe?”

I asked which was better.

She replied, “Europe.”

So I said, “Europe.”

She then asked if I was on any regular medication. I said no.

And finally, she asked, “Are you sentimental?”

I didn’t understand that question—but I was about to.

After answering all her questions, she gave me an appointment to come to their office—six weeks from that day.

The only issue? I had told her I had more money than I actually did.

So now, I had six weeks to find a way to raise the extra cash…

Hmmm…

ENTRY 18

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ENTRY 18

ABBY:
Madam J.

She was formidable, alright. Cruising up and down our street in her black Jeep, just to flaunt how much money she had—it wasn’t a secret. A few times she’d wave like she was the Queen of England, feigning a posh accent mixed with our local dialect. Honestly, it used to make me laugh.

Anyway, on that fateful day when Uncle kicked me out—after the whole Mr 16 incident—I found myself wandering the streets aimlessly, completely lost.

Uncle insisted I return to the village and live with my parents. Aunty didn’t even bat an eyelid. I suppose she was relieved the only person who knew her secret was finally out of the house.

But going back to the village? That was never an option—not even for a second. Still, I had no clue where else I could go. No money. No relatives I could think of.

So I walked—up and down the street—no destination, no plan, just… walking.

That’s when Madam J pulled up beside me.

“Hey, you! Come here. Where are you going?” she called out through her tinted window.

I hadn’t even noticed her driver stop the car beside me—I was so deep in thought. I looked up to see her beaming, eyes waiting for my answer.

“Good evening, ma. I… I don’t know,” I stammered.

Obviously, she demanded an explanation.

I told her it was a long story. She simply said, “Get in.”

With no other choice and nowhere else to go—and besides, I knew her—I thought, What harm could she do?

But I was wrong.

My choice to follow Madam J took me down paths you wouldn’t believe…

Hmmm…


CHRIS:
Destiny across water.

That phrase stayed with me. Day and night, all I could think about was going abroad. It made so much sense.

I imagined the money I’d earn, the look on my parents’ faces when I started sending money home, the mansion I’d build in the village… my thoughts ran wild.

But then reality kicked in. I didn’t have enough money for a plane ticket. My parents couldn’t even afford my university fees, let alone fund me to go overseas. So… what now?

I started researching online—looking for alternate ways to travel abroad. That’s when I discovered something shocking: some people were going by road. Walking, taking boats, even swimming.

But before I went that far…

About eight months after graduation—and after the prophecy—Edward landed a job at a multinational company.

He rang me up, buzzing with excitement.

“Bro! I’ve found my destiny! I’m gonna work hard and climb to the top—I’ll be a partner one day!”

I laughed and said, “Slow down, bro. How do you even know this is the place?”

Edward replied confidently, “My heart tells me. I’m putting everything into this.”

I was happy for him. Truly. But it made me think… Will my journey abroad go that smoothly?

Six months later, I was still researching—still searching. Looking for cheaper ways to make the move.

I found some routes—using other people’s documents and connections—but they were ridiculously expensive. Costing an arm and a leg.

I grumbled to Edward, and he said, “Bro, my office is offering Master’s scholarships to all First Class Economics graduates. Why don’t you apply and join us?”

“Absolutely not,” I replied. “Are you trying to stall my destiny?”

Hmmm…

Preparing for a Strong and Lasting Relationship

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Entering a committed relationship is a beautiful journey, but it’s also a significant transition that requires preparation. Before two lives merge into one, it’s essential to lay a strong foundation based on self-awareness, communication, and shared values. Rushing in without preparation can lead to challenges that could have been avoided. Here’s how to prepare yourself before taking that big step.

Key Areas to Focus on Before Entering a Serious Relationship

1. Know Yourself First

Before committing to another person, ensure you understand yourself. What are your values, goals, and personal boundaries? Are you happy with who you are as an individual? A strong relationship begins with two whole people coming together, not two halves seeking completion.

2. Develop Emotional Maturity

Love isn’t just about attraction—it’s about emotional intelligence. Can you manage conflict constructively? Are you able to express your needs without fear? Emotional stability and maturity will set the tone for a healthy relationship, ensuring you both handle challenges with patience and understanding.

3. Communicate Openly and Honestly

Communication is the backbone of any relationship. Before becoming one, practice expressing your thoughts and feelings clearly. Learn to listen actively and understand your partner’s perspective without judgment. Establishing open and honest communication early will prevent misunderstandings later.

4. Align Your Core Values

Opposites may attract, but shared values sustain a relationship. Discuss key topics like family, finances, career aspirations, and lifestyle choices. Ensuring alignment in these fundamental areas will reduce potential conflicts and make your journey together smoother.

5. Set Healthy Boundaries

Boundaries are essential in any relationship. What are your non-negotiables? How do you expect to be treated? Knowing and communicating your boundaries will help foster respect and prevent future resentment.

6. Build Financial Awareness

Money is one of the top causes of relationship stress. Before combining lives, discuss your financial habits, spending styles, and future financial plans. Transparency in financial matters can prevent unnecessary conflicts down the road.

7. Learn to Be Independent First

A great relationship consists of two independent people who choose to be together, not two individuals who rely on each other for happiness. Develop your own interests, passions, and friendships. Being comfortable on your own will prevent codependency and make your relationship stronger.

How to Prepare for a Healthy Relationship

1. Work on Personal Growth

Invest in self-improvement, whether through learning new skills, therapy, or personal development. The better you are as an individual, the better you can contribute to a partnership.

2. Observe and Learn from Healthy Relationships

Look at couples who inspire you. What makes their relationship work? Pay attention to how they handle disagreements, support each other, and maintain their connection over time.

3. Take Time to Build a Strong Friendship First

The best relationships have a foundation of friendship. Take time to genuinely know your partner without rushing into labels or commitments. The stronger your friendship, the deeper your romantic connection will be.

4. Understand the Realities of Commitment

Love is not just about butterflies and grand gestures; it’s about patience, compromise, and effort. Be ready to support your partner through both good and challenging times.

5. Have the Tough Conversations Early

Don’t avoid difficult discussions about the future. Talk about marriage, children, career ambitions, and other major life decisions before committing fully. Clarity now prevents heartbreak later.

Final Thoughts

Before two become one, preparation is key. Love is more than just emotion—it’s a decision to grow together, respect one another, and build something meaningful. By focusing on personal development, communication, and shared values, you’ll create a strong foundation for a healthy, lasting relationship.

Take your time, enjoy the journey, and make sure you’re truly ready before merging lives. The strongest relationships are built on intention, not impulse.

Please post your comments below. Thank you

Entry 17

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ABBY:
Trauma is real. I didn’t realise it back then, but every lie, every manipulation, every act of abuse stacked up like bricks, building the person I became. The worst part? I had no idea it was affecting me in ways I couldn’t even begin to imagine. I thought it was normal.

When Aunty asked me what kind of woman I wanted to be, my first instinctive answer was: “The kind that can get anything she wants.”

At the time, I didn’t even understand what I meant. But now I do.

Before I was even a teenager, I learnt that covering up for people gave me power. They’d mess up, and I’d protect their secrets—only to use those secrets to get what I wanted. It felt clever. Like I had an ace up my sleeve. But what I really became… was a manipulator. A blackmailer. And it only got worse with age.

One of those moments was what Aunty referred to when she said I ruined her life. Back then, I thought she was being dramatic—delusional, even. But looking back now, I get it. If Aunty had known I wouldn’t cover for her, maybe she would’ve made a different choice.

I know she was a grown woman, and her actions were hers alone—but my little games, my conniving ways, they didn’t just cost me Olumide the doctor…

They cost me something even bigger.

Mr 16.

He came home one summer. By then, he’d been away at school for three years, in his final year, and planning to apply to university in America. He was different—quieter, more withdrawn, not the boisterous boy I remembered.

When I asked him if he was okay, he just smiled and said he was fine. But one evening, I heard him crying. I peeked into his room and saw him scribbling furiously in a diary. I made a note of where he kept it. Later, while he was downstairs having dinner, I snuck in and read it.

That’s when I found out his secret.

By then I was 15—queen of lies and blackmail. I can’t even count how many times I threatened friends just to get what I wanted. Their feelings didn’t matter. It was about control.

That evening, when Mr 16 came back into his room, I sat on his bed and told him to give me the new phone his parents had sent from America—or I’d tell everyone what I’d read.

He looked at me—shocked, confused, like he didn’t even know who I was. “Get lost,” he said.

So I did. But later, I sent him a text with the secret written out.

The next morning, he wasn’t in his room.

He left a note. It said he couldn’t take it anymore. That his secret was out. And no one should look for him.

My heart stopped.

I was terrified. I couldn’t tell anyone what I’d done.

A full-scale search began. The police got involved. I was frozen with fear.

Three days later, they found him in hospital. He’d tried to run into traffic. A car hit him, but he survived—with a broken leg and fractured ribs.

When they asked him why he did it, he simply pointed at me.

Needless to say, Uncle packed my things that same day and kicked me out.

And that’s how I ended up with Madam J.

Hmmm…


CHRIS:
Felix’s story about the prophet shook me. Something in the way he spoke, so sure, so settled in his destiny—it convinced me. So I told ED I’d go.

We travelled to the prophet’s village. When we arrived, there were already people waiting. It was clearly a popular place. After about an hour, it was our turn to go in.

The prophet sat in a faded blue armchair, a fan gently blowing on him. A bottle of water sat on a stool beside him.

As we walked in, he didn’t look at us. Just said, “Welcome. Please sit. Don’t tell me why you’re here.”

He asked me to stretch out my hands. I did.

He took one in his own and ran his fingers over my palm slowly. Up and down. Then he said, “Chris. That’s your name, right?”

I nodded.

“You were born to be great,” he said. “Everything you’ve experienced so far has been preparation for a destiny that is vast and significant. Your path is across waters. You will thrive, and make it big—over there.”

After he finished, I asked, “Sir… which waters? Is it the UK? America? Europe? Where exactly?”

He smiled gently. “God didn’t show me that. God bless you.”

Then it was ED’s turn. The prophet read his palm and said his destiny was to work in an office. If he stayed dedicated and patient, he’d rise to the top—eventually run the company.

Afterwards, we sat on a culvert near the prophet’s house. I was quiet for a long time. Then I finally said, “Why? Why does God hate me so much that He placed my destiny across water? I can’t swim. I hate water. I lost my best friend to water. Why would He do that?”

ED looked at me with a sad sort of sympathy. “I’m sorry, bro. But that’s your path. At least now you know.”

I stared into the distance for a while.

Then I said, “Well… that’s that. I need to start looking for money. I have to get a visa to go abroad.”

But that, my friend, is another story.

Hmmm…

Entry 16

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ENTRY 16

ABBY:
As Aunty ended the call, not even giving me a chance to ask any questions, my boyfriend turned to me with a worried look on his face.

“Abby, honey… what was that about?”

I looked into his inquisitive eyes and tried to bluff. “Nothing,” I said, waving it off casually.

But he wasn’t buying it.

“What do you mean ‘nothing’? She just called you a liar and said you ruined her life. Abby, tell me what she meant.”

His voice was getting louder—agitated—and I knew if I didn’t give him something, he wouldn’t stop. So, I gave him a watered-down version. But even that didn’t convince him.

“Abby,” he said sharply, “we’ve been together for two years, and one thing I know is when you’re not telling me the truth. So, tell me now, or we end this relationship—right now.”

Needless to say, I didn’t tell him the truth. And just like that, it ended.

He stood up, walked out of the departure lounge where we’d been waiting to board, and left me sitting there—alone. I ended up going on that birthday trip to Egypt by myself.

When I returned, he had blocked my number, unfollowed me, and deleted all our pictures from his social media. Just like that. Gone.

The lies I told eleven years ago had come back to ruin my present.

Olumide wasn’t just any man. He was a doctor. He’d just secured a job in Dubai and was planning to relocate—with me.

Later, I found out from his sister that he was going to propose to me in Egypt. He had bought a ring and everything.

Choices. Every choice we make comes with consequences. And I was about to learn that in ways I couldn’t imagine.

Well, let me tell you how it all unfolded…

Hmmm…


CHRIS:
ED took me to meet Felix—the owner of Trust God Transports. He was young, early thirties, and surprisingly humble for someone so successful.

He welcomed us warmly and offered snacks. I declined—I was there for destiny, not biscuits. ED accepted though, as usual.

Felix leaned forward and said, “Guys, this prophet—he’s the real deal. I heard about him from my uncle. The prophet told him who he’d marry, how many children he’d have, even what those children would do when they grew up. And everything happened just like he said.”

He paused, then added, “The prophet’s blind, but it’s like he sees with an inner eye.”

I raised an eyebrow but listened on.

“When I went to see him,” Felix continued, “he held my hand for a few minutes, looked up and said, ‘Son, your destiny is on the road. You will thrive if you stay on that path. Don’t deviate. Keep moving back and forth—and you’ll be wealthy.’”

“That’s all he said?” I asked.

Felix nodded. “Yeah. At the time, I was a frustrated bus driver earning peanuts. I was so close to quitting. I’d even started looking into online business—which, let’s be honest, mostly meant fraud these days.”

He chuckled, then continued.

“But the way he said ‘the road’, I knew he meant transport. So I went to a cooperative and used my father’s land as collateral to get a small loan. I bought an old, rundown van, fixed it up gradually, and within a year, I started my own road transport business—moving between nearby towns.”

He leaned back proudly.

“Then I bought another van… and another. I started running longer routes. Now I have ten luxury buses and twenty-five smaller ones that go between Lagos and Ibadan every day.”

He smiled. “The road really was my destiny.”

Hmmm…

Entry 15

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ENTRY 15

ABBY:
Before I get to what happened eleven years later, I remember a moment from just a week after the sit-down with both sets of parents—shortly after the baby’s christening. Uncle had changed. He still did his duty as a father, but there was something distant about him, like a man going through the motions, carrying a weight only he could feel.

One afternoon, Aunty called me into her room. She was sitting at her dressing table, staring into the mirror like she was searching for something lost.

“Abby,” she said slowly, “do you ever think about what kind of woman you want to be?”

I froze. That wasn’t the kind of question she usually asked. Normally, it was something like ‘Have you swept the parlour?’ or ‘Why is there no salt in the stew?’ But this—this was different.

I nodded and replied, “Yes, I think about it a lot.”

She sighed and turned to me. “I never wanted to be this woman. The kind who hides. The kind who lies. But life…” she trailed off, then added softly, “You have a chance to be better than me, Abby. Don’t waste it.”

I didn’t know what to say. Part of me wanted to ask why she was telling me this now. But another part of me—the part still just a girl pretending to be grown—wanted to hug her. I didn’t. I just stood there, quietly.

But maybe I should have thought about it more, because eleven years later, it all came back.

I remember the day clearly—it was unforgettable. I was about to turn 24 the next day. My boyfriend at the time was sitting next to me at the airport. We were flying to Egypt for a birthday weekend getaway when her call came through.

I was excited. I thought maybe she wanted to wish me a happy birthday—we hadn’t spoken in a while. I smiled, put the phone on speaker and said, “Hello, Aunty!”

But her voice was cold, and her words hit me like ice.

“Abby,” she said, “you destroyed my life. Why didn’t you just tell the truth that day?”

I blinked, confused.

“Uncle just won the American lottery. And on the immigration form, he wrote that he had three biological children. The questions were specific—they asked if any of them were stepchildren. He said no.”

She paused. Her breathing got heavier.

“DNA tests were done. The truth came out. We all got our visas. But Steven has been denied.”

My heart sank.

“Abby, why? You ruined my life…”

Hmmm…


CHRIS:
Edward was the older brother of my childhood friend—the one who drowned. I told you about him back in Entry 1. Edward and I stayed close, and over the years, we became best friends. He always had my back.

Just before our university graduation, Edward said something to me that I’ll never forget.

“Chris, you know we’ve always said we won’t just be rich—we’ll be very wealthy. I’ve found something that will guide us.”

I looked at him, puzzled. “What do you mean?”

“There’s this prophet,” he replied. “He’s blind. He holds your hand, reads your palm, and tells you exactly what your destiny is. No guesswork. Just clarity.”

Before he could finish, I interrupted, “Edward, you’ve come again with one of your made-up stories. Who but God can see our destinies?”

Ed just laughed. “Bro, forget that. This prophet’s helped loads of people. I’m not saying he’ll make us rich, but his guidance will help us find our path—no more wasting time chasing shadows. What harm could it do?”

That night, lying in bed, I couldn’t stop thinking. Maybe Ed had a point. People spend years trying their hand at everything and still never find the thing meant for them. What if there really was a way to know?

Still, I wanted proof.

Ed said he’d introduce me to someone the prophet had read for—someone who followed the path and, barely six years later, was now rich beyond belief.

Hmmm…